Your Thoughts Create Your Life

When we’re in the first stages of our spiritual growth we think that we can’t have any control over out thoughts. To a certain extent this is true, because our brain tends to have a continuous loop of thoughts that run through our brains every day. However, once we begin to meditate, we become aware of those thoughts and just how unproductive some of them really are. What to do?

Many people do affirmations, and that’s a good start to the process of listening to the thoughts you want to hear. However, affirmations which are spoken with the conscious mind will take a very long time to manifest anything because they aren’t getting into the subconscious mind to change the true source of all those old unproductive thoughts that were programmed into us from birth. This is where hypnosis and relaxation techniques come in very successfully.

When you brain is more relaxed, and your breathing is slower and deeper, your brain waves naturally move into an alpha state. It is in this state that you have access to your subconscious mind as well as your superconscious mind (the source of your Soul). When you say or hear your new affirmations in this state they are more likely to be accepted by the subconscious, after a time (somewhere between 30 to 90 days) and you will start to run new thoughts that are more in alignment with what you want for your life.

Why does it take so long? Because the brain needs to make neural pathways, and if you’ve ever studied the nervous system you will know that growing anything to do with the nerves takes a rather long time. We are all different, of course. Some people can make these changes faster than others. Neither is wrong. We are all different and special. A little persistence is all it takes.

So when you start running those new thoughts in your automatic mind you will begin to see changes in your life. What you believe is truly what you see in your life. Once you believe differently you will begin to see things that you never saw before. You will see opportunities that seemingly weren’t there before. You will see and react to people differently. It won’t be they who have changed, it is you. Once you are different, thinking differently, your whole world opens up and you have unlimited possibilities.

Separation from Source

In the work I do with Spirit, Hand Analysis, and Achievement and Habit Control consulting, I am constantly amazed and humbled by the immensity of the information that we have available to us from our Soul. It’s often said that Separation from Source is the cause of all our problems, and I’m beginning to believe it wholeheartedly.

As our Soul is part of Source/ God/ Oneness (call it what appeals to you), it must be immensely painful for it to sit there striving to communicate with us on a daily or even minute by minute basis trying to help us lead happier and more fulfilled lives. I know, if that were me, I’d also be terribly frustrated (but that’s just me – impatient).

One of the easiest ways to communicate with your Soul is to get into a relaxed state where your breathing is deeper and slower (that puts your mind in an Alpha state, which is where you have access to this realm) and ask it “What would my Wise Mind say about this?” Be prepared for a good answer. Your Wise Mind will never speak to you in any other way than uplifting, encouraging or cheering. It is your best Coach. It will never guide you wrong.

If you hear those darn little disparaging voices that judge, condemn or criticise, know that they are not the Wise Mind. Wisdom does not come in that form. Ignore those voices and ask again, ensuring that you are really relaxed and attentive. You might feel a little spacey or like your mind is drifting. That’s OK. That’s where you want to be. If you like put on some soft music that helps you relax. Do whatever you need to do to get into that relaxed space so you can hear the voice of your Wise Mind (or Soul).

Once you’ve received the advice from your Wise Mind, I suggest that you write it down in a journal that you keep specially for this purpose. As you read over it later in time, you will be amazed that the wisdom that has flowed between you and your Soul. It will help on those days that you just feel that nothing is going right, and It’s wisdom is timeless.

Can hypnosis really help you lose weight, quit smoking and nix nail biting?

Report by Starre Vartan

Can hypnosis really help you lose weight, quit smoking and nix nail biting?
Many people report that hypnotherapy works: Here’s how.

While we still don’t know exactly how hypnosis works, for people with seemingly intractable habits, it can be a powerful tool for change.

Many of us have perceptions of hypnotism rooted in Hollywood or entertainment versions of the process, but in reality, there’s nothing that magical or even strange about it. Hypnotism is simply a means to access the subconscious mind, and many experts think it’s not all that different from states that we experience while absorbed in watching a movie that we closely identify with, reading a book we love, driving, or any other activity wherein it seems the outside world has less impact on our perceptions (if you’ve ever missed a train stop because you were sucked into a new novel, or driven your car miles past your exit, you’re experienced a similar state of mind).

And if you’ve long been a tad afraid of hypnotherapy (I have) even as you’ve heard friends or family members tout its benefits, once you understand how it actually works, it’s not all that creepy.

Contrary to popular thought, a hypnotist can’t make you do something you would never do, or ‘plant’ an idea in your head that’s the opposite of what you believe in. And certainly, no responsible practitioner (there are many trained therapists who can utilize the method) would do so. So why can’t someone mess with your head the way we’ve all seen on TV shows?

According to HowStuffWorks, even when one is hypnotised, one’s conscience still exists, so we will never do anything under hypnosis that we don’t believe in doing. Similarly, if one is using hypnosis to change a habit, it must be one that the person genuinely wants to kick. That being said, hypnosis does access the subconcious mind, which is why someone can be encouraged to act silly (flap their arms like a chicken) but not immoral (hurt someone or themselves). Our conscious minds govern our ‘thought-through actions,’ whereas our subconscious is very much who we are, but without the more logical, rational conscious mind (which makes decisions about how to walk from the office to the burrito place, but doesn’t monitor your body movements, footfalls, eye gazes or other more automatic behaviors – that’s the subconcious’ job). The two parts of our mind usually work together in everyday life; hypnotism skips over the conscious part, putting us in touch with our automatic processes (like bad- and good- habits). The subconscious gets us to buckle up, and stop at a red light, so our concious mind is free to think about the email our boss just sent or how we really need to get plane tickets to Greece by next week.

Hypnosis is really more of a trance-like state where we are simply more open to suggestion, more relaxed, and more imaginative (and also more able to access memories easily), because we are bypassing the conscious mind for a time. Our free will is still very much intact, we are just more flexible, and for those of us with myriad defences built up over the years, hypnotism can help us move past those to change bad habits.

Nobody can be hypnotized against their will. That’s because, according to HowStuffWorks: “Hypnotists’ methods vary, but they all depend on a few basic prerequisites:

The subject must want to be hypnotized.
The subject must believe he or she can be hypnotized.
The subject must eventually feel comfortable and relaxed.”

Once you understand all of these details about hypnotism, and how it works, it’s a lot less scary. Using hypnotism to change habits can work, but the method that’s most effective is the one that’s tailored to you and your bad habits. Unfortunately, group sessions and those found on tapes and downloads have been shown to only have short-term positive results.

So if you’re interested in getting over a phobia or kicking that unhealthy habit, a one-on-one session with a licensed therapist can really work, and has worked for millions of people who report positive results. Some people even say that hypnotism helped them deal with chronic pain, or extreme temporary pain, like that typically experienced in childbirth. We still don’t know how the mind-body connection works, only that there is one, and hypnosis can help us get closer to its mysteries.

Finding a cure through hypnosis

Hypnotherapy for smoking, weight gain and more

Updated: Wednesday, 29 Feb 2012, 11:59 AM EST
Published : Tuesday, 28 Feb 2012, 11:07 AM EST

  • Michaela Johnson

FALL RIVER, Mass. (WPRI) – People are faced with difficult situations and temptations every day. If you’ve ever felt addicted to a certain habit that you haven’t been able to break, there’s one process that you may not have considered before: hypnotherapy.

Depression, smoking, weight gain, grieving, anxiety; All reasons some turn to hypnotherapy. “Hypnosis is a state of affairs that is completely natural it’s something you experience on a regular basis in day to day life but most people are unaware of the fact that they’re experiencing when it’s happening” said Dan Conway, certified hypnotist.

For clients like Cristy Raposo, weight gain has been a constant struggle.

“I’ve done Weight Watchers, and that helped but I always seemed to loose the weight and put it back on. I tried Herbalife, I tried walking groups, but it’s always an up and down battle.”

After entering the room and filling out necessary paperwork, clients make their way into the office of a professional.

“We sit down, and determine in this case with the weight loss what do they weigh now and what is their goal weight and what negative behaviors and habits have got them to where they are now” said Alan L. Alves, board certified master hypnotist.

Things like overeating, junk food, lack of exercise, and not enough water may be some of those symptoms. Hypnotherapy sessions remove negative programs and behavior and replace them with positive thoughts. After gaining a better understanding of the process, clients and hypnotherapists make their way into the session room.

Many clients believe they will be falling asleep; however they drift into a daydream-like state during the sessions.

“It’s a safe and natural process. It’s a non addictive approach to changing ones thoughts and behaviors” said hypnotist, Lisa Evans.

Alan Alves, Dan Conway, and Lisa Evans are all part of the Bayside Chapter of Certified Hypnotists. They meet to share thoughts in the field.

“Mainly our chapter was formed to have a collaboration of hypnotists to promote the benefits of hypnosis and the philosophy of hypnotism” said Evans.

Hypnosis may help kids’ stomach woes long-term

By Amy Norton

NEW YORK | Thu Feb 23, 2012 4:32pm EST

(Reuters Health) – Hypnosis may bring lasting relief to some kids with irritable bowel syndrome or chronic stomach pain, a small study suggests.

Researchers found that of 52 children with the tummy troubles, those who had six hypnosis sessions — plus at-home “self-hypnosis” — were still doing well five years later.

More than two-thirds were free or mostly free of abdominal pain. That compared with just 20 percent of kids who were given standard therapy alone.

Researchers led by Dr. Arine M. Vlieger, of St. Antonius Hospital in the Netherlands, reported the results in the American Journal of Gastroenterology.

Many people may think of hypnosis as someone waving a pocket watch in front of your face, then making you do strange things, noted Miranda van Tilburg, an assistant professor of medicine at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.

But in medicine, hypnosis is used to help people create relaxing images in their minds to ease symptoms like pain and anxiety, explained van Tilburg, who was not involved in the current study but researches and uses “guided imagery” — basically, self-hypnosis — for kids’ abdominal pain.

“Gut-directed” hypnotherapy may, for instance, suggest images for normalizing bowel function — like picturing a smoothly flowing river.

A number of studies since the 1980s have found that hypnosis helps some people with irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) when standard treatment fails. There’s also evidence it can help kids with so-called functional abdominal pain.

Functional abdominal pain — which is thought to affect up to 20 percent of children — refers to persistent stomach pain that cannot be traced to a particular disorder. IBS involves abdominal pain too, but people also have bouts of constipation, diarrhea or both.

Often, tactics like diet changes, pain medication or extra fiber are enough to ease the symptoms of either disorder.

When that fails, there’s behavioral therapy. Cognitive behavioral therapy — which targets the unhealthy thinking patterns and behaviors that can contribute to health problems — has been shown to help some cases of IBS or functional abdominal pain.

But no one knows yet if cognitive behavioral therapy helps beyond one year, van Tilburg pointed out.

The current findings are important, she told Reuters Health, because they suggest that hypnosis can offer lasting relief.

“We’ve known that it has short-term effects, six months to a year,” said van Tilburg. “But the hope is that people will master the skill, and then practice it as a lifelong skill.”

It’s not clear whether kids in this study did keep using self-hypnosis over the long term, van Tilburg noted. But the advantage in pain relief was still there.

The findings are based on 52 children and teenagers who were randomly assigned to either have gut-directed hypnotherapy or stick with standard care alone, like diet changes and fiber.

Kids in the hypnosis group had six sessions with a therapist and were given CDs to help them practice self-hypnosis at home.

Five years later, 68 percent of kids in the hypnosis group were still largely free of abdominal pain, compared with 20 percent of kids who’d received only standard care.

The hypnosis group was also faring better in other symptoms, like bloating and bowel problems.

It’s not clear why hypnosis might help with abdominal pain or other gut symptoms, according to van Tilburg. One theory had been that it alters pain sensitivity in the intestines, she noted — but recent research suggests that’s not what is happening.

Instead, hypnosis might affect how the brain processes pain signals from the gut. But for now, that’s speculation, van Tilburg said.

One obstacle to trying hypnosis for your child’s belly problems is availability. More psychologists and pediatricians are doing training in hypnosis these days, Vlieger told Reuters Health by email.

But there’s still a dearth of properly trained professionals, van Tilburg said.

And, she cautioned, “there are a lot of people out there who call themselves hypnotherapists, but they don’t have the right training to treat medical conditions.”

If parents want to find a health professional who uses hypnosis, van Tilburg suggested trying the American Society of Clinical Hypnosis website, www.asch.net.

Of course, there’s a cost, which only some insurance plans would cover. Six or seven hypnotherapy sessions could run around $1,000, on average.

Van Tilburg and her colleagues are looking at making the therapy more widely available via CD. In a small 2009 study, they found that kids who learned self-hypnosis by CD were able to soothe their functional abdominal pain over eight weeks; nearly three-quarters said their pain had lessened by at least half.

Vlieger said her team is now doing a clinical trial to compare CD-based self-hypnosis against face-to-face hypnosis with a therapist. They should know how the two tactics size up — in effectiveness and costs — in about two years.

SOURCE: bit.ly/ADnKXt American Journal of Gastroenterology, online February 7, 2012.

Samskaras and Life Lessons

Recently I’ve been learning new methods for Transforming our lives.  As I learn new methods, I often get deep insights.  As I transform myself, my work deepens and my understanding of life also deepens.

One of the tranformation techniques I’ve recently learned has brought up the word Samskara for me strongly.  Samskaras are considered old thought patterns and conditioning that we have not only learned in this life time but have brought forward from other life times.

That got me thinking about the Life Lessons in the hand.  Since the fingerprints are formed in utero by our Soul to show the challenges that we will have to face in this life time, I wondered if they could be considered part of the samskaras we bring into this life to resolve and grow through.

If you’ve had your hands read you may have noticed this as well.  Isn’t it interesting to know that the Soul can show us this information from the time we’re born?  Wouldn’t it be even better if we knew these patterns right from the start so that we could work on understanding why we behave and react the way we do that creates challenges for us?

Of course, we are not usually conscious of this type of pattern when we are very small, but if our parents were enlightened beings and could help us overcome these patterns earlier, perhaps life would be more joyful for us and we would be able to recognise these challenges earlier.  Maybe even overcome them.  Who knows?!

Why Relaxation?

Just about everyone knows these days that relaxation is important.

Our health is dependant on many things like good natural food, sleep, water and exercise.  But in this world we live in these days, we are stressed from many factors, not enough money, redundancies, mortgage foreclosures, rising prices and ecological disasters to name but a few.  Our bodies are now suffering with the effects of these stressors with ill health and mental problems like depression.

However, a more profound reason for relaxation is that when we are relaxed we can access the deep inner wisdom that we all possess.  We can use this inner wisdom to guide our lives in ways that make us more fulfilled and happier as well as healthier.

Imagine that you had a guide for your life that you could go to anytime you felt puzzled, stressed or just generally frustrated.  This wise inner guide looks at your life from a higher perspective and can give you information that you might not be aware of, or just give you advice that makes so much more sense that what your mind is giving you.
Your higher mind, which is not your brain, sits at a level of consciousness that is above and beyond what your everyday mind knows.   When you can access this higher mind you get answers that you might not have ever dreamed of.

You want to know your Life Purpose?  Ask your higher mind.  While it’s true that your fingerprints will tell you your Life Purpose, your higher mind, or deep inner wisdom will refine it in ways that lead  you down paths that are very satisfying.

Life is a journey.   This has been said many times, and as such it means that everything about you evolves over time as you grow and develop.  This includes your Life Purpose.  It is only when you get older that you can see the path that you’ve followed and see how all the seemingly disparate parts of what you’ve done or learned have come together and made the picture of the puzzle of you into a beautiful whole.

Believe in Yourself

The biggest obstacle you will ever come across in anything you try to accomplish in life is the voice from within that says “You can’t”  “You’re not good enough”  “Who do you think you are to be that great?” 

Don’t believe it.  It’s a liar.  If the voice is negative it is the voice of the ego trying to keep you safe, which keeps you small.

Only listen to the voice of your Spirit which will always encourage and praise you.